How to teach children independently?

The daily issues are the agents that lead to arguments between children and parents, but also create opportunities to nurture independence. Your puberty child may think he or she is allowed to do something (dating) just because he or she is old enough, or simply because you all do it, but your child lack of skills to control the situation. If you focus on equipping your child with the necessary knowledge, you will turn conflicts and conflicts into opportunities for them to practice new skills and show their sense of responsibility to themselves.

Puberty will naturally have many opportunities to test new things, will make mistakes and eventually succeed. What you need to do is make sure your child learns from the mistakes instead of criticizing them. At the same time, you must be careful to help your child avoid mistakes that cannot be overcome or harm others. And equally important, make sure your child doesn’t miss future growth opportunities.

When is your child ready to face new challenges?
And the answer to this question is when you realize your child has all the necessary things to not make mistakes (or minimize the risk of mistakes). When your 14-year-old child asks permission to hang out with friends in a big shopping center, you won’t have to ask yourself questions like, “Are you old enough to go?”, Because you have Teach your children how to spend smartly and treat them with courtesy. The day when your child starts to ride electric bicycles to school will be much easier if you have previously taught your child how to safely ride a car and turn on the vehicle and watch the traffic before crossing the road.

Sometimes you should start by looking around under your eyes for a bit. Put yourself in your shoes, ask yourself: “If I were a child, what would I do?”. You can watch the mall as a place to shop, but maybe your child thinks it’s a place to have fun, eat, hang out with friends. Observe the path you take from your child’s point of view, which will help you predict the difficulties you may face. Put yourself in your position to think about how you should monitor and support your child so that everything is smooth.

It is important to slowly guide your child to help them express their sense of responsibility. So, you can not only be able to teach children independently, but also to control them, not to make them feel bound.

How To Make Friends With Your Children?

The fact that parents are too busy with work makes time to talk with their children unintentionally, so they create a habit of being afraid to share with their parents. In particular, there are teenagers, though desirable, but many parents do not know how to be friends, listen to their minds and understand their children.
Parents can refer to the following 4 basic principles to be able to be friends with children who are “old age”.

1. Respect your child’s opinion

Parents do not think to respect your opinion only when you have grown up we will do this. “Respect” here means that parents will listen to their thoughts and consider it most accurately. Parents should not impose their thoughts on their children, we are only responsible for guiding them. This will make you feel more respected and will therefore confidently speak your thoughts.

There have been many cases of parents who are too conservative, imposing their thoughts on their children so that they do not dare to speak their thoughts. This leads to stress, even pressure to respond to parents.

2. Do not use force or nag too much

Many parents think “beat him up” but the fact that the whip only makes you hurt physically, maybe once you are scared but once a third time you will not be afraid anymore. Only beating cannot solve the problem even forming in the attitude of indifferent, indifferent.

At this age, I already think so the use of force is absolutely not necessary and does not work. If you need to teach, sit down and instruct your child in the shortest way. Make your point clear and don’t grumble too much. That makes me feel serious from you and understand the focus.

3. Spend more time with your child

Regularly talking to your children will help parents understand their children from the way they think. Talking more and more children will be closer to their parents and will easily share their thoughts and issues more.

Not only are they waiting for their storytelling, parents should also offer lessons in real life to share with them how this should or should not be done or how to do it best. It is a way to help me handle the situation in the best way through which also helps me understand more about the surrounding life.

4. Not afraid to show affection

This is also a way to make feelings between parents and children become closer. Do not be afraid to send me sentimental words or close gestures because if you are afraid, I will not be able to see it naturally.

When I am in my teenage years, my age is curious about everything the most, it is also my age to be able to do what I’m curious about, so it is necessary to make friends with me at this age. Be a wise parent to raise your children in the best way and with your child to overcome the stage of perfecting, stabilizing personality.