The fact that parents are too busy with work makes time to talk with their children unintentionally, so they create a habit of being afraid to share with their parents. In particular, there are teenagers, though desirable, but many parents do not know how to be friends, listen to their minds and understand their children.
Parents can refer to the following 4 basic principles to be able to be friends with children who are “old age”.
1. Respect your child’s opinion
Parents do not think to respect your opinion only when you have grown up we will do this. “Respect” here means that parents will listen to their thoughts and consider it most accurately. Parents should not impose their thoughts on their children, we are only responsible for guiding them. This will make you feel more respected and will therefore confidently speak your thoughts.
There have been many cases of parents who are too conservative, imposing their thoughts on their children so that they do not dare to speak their thoughts. This leads to stress, even pressure to respond to parents.
2. Do not use force or nag too much
Many parents think “beat him up” but the fact that the whip only makes you hurt physically, maybe once you are scared but once a third time you will not be afraid anymore. Only beating cannot solve the problem even forming in the attitude of indifferent, indifferent.
At this age, I already think so the use of force is absolutely not necessary and does not work. If you need to teach, sit down and instruct your child in the shortest way. Make your point clear and don’t grumble too much. That makes me feel serious from you and understand the focus.
3. Spend more time with your child
Regularly talking to your children will help parents understand their children from the way they think. Talking more and more children will be closer to their parents and will easily share their thoughts and issues more.
Not only are they waiting for their storytelling, parents should also offer lessons in real life to share with them how this should or should not be done or how to do it best. It is a way to help me handle the situation in the best way through which also helps me understand more about the surrounding life.
4. Not afraid to show affection
This is also a way to make feelings between parents and children become closer. Do not be afraid to send me sentimental words or close gestures because if you are afraid, I will not be able to see it naturally.
When I am in my teenage years, my age is curious about everything the most, it is also my age to be able to do what I’m curious about, so it is necessary to make friends with me at this age. Be a wise parent to raise your children in the best way and with your child to overcome the stage of perfecting, stabilizing personality.